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I have 4 problems to discuss and which i need a detailed answer. 1. Wants to increase the girth and length of penis by 1 inch. 2. Without erection, while my partner is shaking the penis, ejaculation happens. 3.When the penis is erected it doesn't have sufficient strength, it quickly goes down. 4. During the above stage, while inserting , ejaculation occurs in seconds, thus the duration of sex life is just 15 or 30 seconds.

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As you are a 30 year old, I assume that you have a regular sexual partner

1. The shape and size of one's penis is determined largely by hereditary factors and to a small extent by environmental factors like level of sexual activity and cardiovascular health . There is no acceptable method in the world which can increase one's organ size. Better cardiovascular health through aerobic exercise, giving up smoking and alcohol , improved nutrition will help in proper erection of penis.
2. When your partner is stimulating the penis it is unlikely that ejaculation occurs. The fluid which is secreted at that time is usually seminal fluid which is essential for lubrication during sexual intercourse.

3& 4 no. questions are related in the sense that ejaculation usually occurs before complete erection is attained.
This can be treated in several ways i.e. through training and medications. To begin with you can try Kegel's exercise i.e. pulling and releasing your pelvic floor(area between your anus and testes) or using start-stop technique or squeeze technique. In these techniques, during sexual intercourse when you fell that you are about to ejaculate then withdraw your penis and ask your partner to squeeze lightly below the tip of your penis or alternatively just stop the intercourse and restart again after sometime.

You must visit a Psychiatrist for further training and therapy, if the problems persist.

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