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Hi.. Im 24 yr old male. i have an habit of masturbation. i think in my school 8th class i did masturbation first time. After a year it became a habit for me. iâ€™m very much ashamed of having this habit. After doing masturbation, I hate myself that I cant control it. I think to control doing next time, but finally again I do it. From that time to till now I cant stop this habit. So more or less I masturbate twice a week anyway and in rare cases thrice a week. Accidentally during my college time I watched some programs in tv saying that masturbation causes not able to do sexual intercourse with partner. It causes not able to give a baby after marriage. After seeing that type of programs I got very much afraid of my life. Before two years I did laser eye surgery. Before surgery they did all pre-test for me. Then they said that your nerves are weak so we need to do two more extra test. After that extra test doctor said that we can do the surgery thereâ€™s nothing problem regarding the nerve weakness. I Think may be its family gene problem having nerve weakness. Maybe your grandfather too could had nerve weakness in his life. And now after two years of eye surgery I didnâ€™t face any problems. As doctor said my nerves are weak in my body from my small age.After masturbating all these days I feel my nerves got more weak than before. I donâ€™t know whether it is due to masturbation.But nowadays after masturbation I get head pain back side sometimes and not everytime. Anyway I feel nerves are weak in my body.Iâ€™m afraid very much that I cant do sexual intercourse with my partner if I get married. Iâ€™m afraid that I cant make my wife pregnant after my marriage. Please help me can I make a baby with sexual intercourse after my marriage? Do Iâ€™ve to get any treatment regarding sexual or regarding my nerve weakness or do Iâ€™ve to check whether can I make a baby with good sexual intercourse??

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Dr. Puneet Madan answered : 12 years ago

Hi,

Masturbation is a normal process and every male does it since they gain puberty from around 13-16 so there is nothing wrong what you are doing and you don't masturbate to much or excessively that you need to get tensed for that,this much can be excepted as normal(twice weekly).
Avoid excessive porn material,that would help you keep control.
It is nothing such that if you masturbate then you can not get kids this is all rubish where ever you heard it,it is that people who masturbate excessively their libido is a litlle reduced and that should not be a problem with you.
I din't get what do you mean to say by that doctor told you your nerves are weak and if there would have been any such illness then it would have been serious,however what symptoms do you feel except for fatigue due to nerve weakness ?

Patient asked followup Question: 12 years ago

What is fatigue mean exactly? When doctor checked my eyes, they told me.The symptoms i feel are something like itching backside of neck when i read anything on computer or tv or any else for long time. Then for example when something (i.e. leaves or small stones or anything) comes infront of my eyes suddenly when i was going in a bike, i shrink my eyes and head immediately. I know everyone do a shake that time but i feel more from normal. I think its due to nerve weakness. These are the things i feel..

Dr. Puneet Madan answered : 12 years ago

Hi,

Fatigue means thakaan or to get tired easily,the symptoms you described are not of nerve weakness.Rest other symptoms are very normal things which many people might face and it is difficult to comment may be there is some thing locally on your back which might be irritating you or may be some kind of allergy.
If you really feel that way when you masturbate then get your self checked up to a nearest doctor and he might have to do investigation and various tests to confirm if everything is fine.

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