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hi! i have been experiencing strong emotions of anger, sadness, being cheated,used by others and i feel like smoking all the time to get out of it. i have tried talking to my friends about this but, i just cant explain myself. i feel i am alone and there is noone to hear. i have started reacting to criticism in an outrageous way. i feel close to this guy and anything he does or says i feel strongly about it. i like being the only loved one in his life and any change makes me mad. i yell and misbehave and this is affecting my relationship. i do the same with my mom. i know i am suffering from borderline personality disorder and i need help and its making me depressed right now. i am trying to get hold of myself and trying to talk when i feel little stable and the instability is constant and there is nothing that gives me the desired mental peace. i am very troubled and i need someone to understand this. i cant get the right words to express but i want to. its becoming too difficult to cope with. i feel i have a dual life.

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Dear Ankita , I understand it must be painful for you to be disturbed by so much going around you and not able to cope with most of it. The patterns in your mood swings and relationships do suggest that you might be suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder although a definitive diagnosis can only be made after clinical interview , examination and personality assessment.
The first step I suggest you to do is to try maintaining harmony in your current relationship by avoiding extreme reactions to situations.
Also meet with a psychiatrist for consultation as soon as possible along with your family.
The problems that you are facing can be dealt with quite effectively through therapy.
Best Wishes

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