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whether fantasies about oral sex and it's request from spouse is considered as perversion

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Dr. Manushree Gupta answered : 11 years ago

Thank you for your query.
Oral sex and fantasizing about it is not a sexual perversion. However, if the preoccupation with it is causing dysfunction in your relationship then it requires sex counselling.
Oral sex can be practised by partners if it is consensual , pleasurable and hygienic.

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