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i am not virgin how can i hide this from my husband on the first night

PAST HISTORY : totally fit and sexually active

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Patient asked followup Question: 12 years ago

i am sexually active till now and getting married on 22nd may. how can i hide this from my husband.please suggest me some useful solution for this so that i can get rid from this problem of his questions about my virginity..........

Patient asked followup Question: 12 years ago

is there any effective solution for my problem because i don't have much time left with me.....please reply soon.

Dr. Puneet Madan answered : 12 years ago

Hi,

It is fine that you have been sexually active and have done sex,but no body can prove this till the time you don't accept it.
Normally there is a hymen which confirms that you are a virgin,but it is not vice versa, if it is there you may say that there are more chances that a lady might be a virgin but for the hymen being ruptured there can be a plenty of causes except for sex it can even get ruptured by heavy excercise also.
If your husband is a non medico then he will not be able to see your hymen it is not that easy to see it,and if he is a medico then he will know about the ruptured hymen has so many causes.
The vaginal wall does not loose its elasticity till a lady gives birth to a baby.

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